the "cold"en rule

Last SundayI went golfing with Mark and my friend from high school. Golfing was a good time although I stunk I was still having fun and getting in some practice.

So after golf us 3 got something to eat. We were sitting at the bar and just ordered food.

My friend brought up something from the past. I should just tell you but I better not. I'm sure you can guess. We lived together and she did something to me that wasn't very nice so I moved out that weekend. She had some nerve bring this up in front of Mark, let alone bring it up at all. So I said "we better not talk about this because Mark will get mad." Then Mark said "yeah, she's cold like that." (because I moved out so quickly on her.)

Excuse me! I'm cold like that? First off, I'm glad my boyfriend thinks so fondly of me and second, he has no clue about the whole situation so he should not be talking like that! I was really upset and hurt. And you know what, if I told him the whole story he would probably think way differently about my friend and he would understand where I was coming from. I was the one who got hurt. She was the one who, stabbed me in the back, the heart, the leg, the arm, everywhere!

She really hurt me and we have never been the same. I don't want it to be the same. It CAN'T be the same...it being our friendship.

What I've realized is some people don't change. Because driving in the car with her on Monday she hasn't changed. Telling me stories about how she just kissed this guy who has a girlfriend. Spending time with her I feel like she still needs some growing up to do. And I don't think she realizes what she's doing to other people's relationships.

I believe in Karma. She is souly responsible for the laughter and heartaches she brings into her own life. I hope she stops acting like this because I am her friend, not her best friend, but I am a friend.

Last SundayI went golfing with Mark and my friend from high school. Golfing was a good time although I stunk I was still having fun and getting in some practice.

So after golf us 3 got something to eat. We were sitting at the bar and just ordered food.

My friend brought up something from the past. I should just tell you but I better not. I'm sure you can guess. We lived together and she did something to me that wasn't very nice so I moved out that weekend. She had some nerve bring this up in front of Mark, let alone bring it up at all. So I said "we better not talk about this because Mark will get mad." Then Mark said "yeah, she's cold like that." (because I moved out so quickly on her.)

Excuse me! I'm cold like that? First off, I'm glad my boyfriend thinks so fondly of me and second, he has no clue about the whole situation so he should not be talking like that! I was really upset and hurt. And you know what, if I told him the whole story he would probably think way differently about my friend and he would understand where I was coming from. I was the one who got hurt. She was the one who, stabbed me in the back, the heart, the leg, the arm, everywhere!

She really hurt me and we have never been the same. I don't want it to be the same. It CAN'T be the same...it being our friendship.

What I've realized is some people don't change. Because driving in the car with her on Monday she hasn't changed. Telling me stories about how she just kissed this guy who has a girlfriend. Spending time with her I feel like she still needs some growing up to do. And I don't think she realizes what she's doing to other people's relationships.

I believe in Karma. She is souly responsible for the laughter and heartaches she brings into her own life. I hope she stops acting like this because I am her friend, not her best friend, but I am a friend.